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List of fetishes A to Z: names, meanings, and fetish vs kink

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This is an A to Z of fetishes: the formal names, what they mean in plain English, and, unusually, how much evidence there is behind each one. That last part matters, because most of the -philia words you'll find online are reference-book curiosities or internet coinages, not diagnoses, and only a handful have been studied at all. Before the list, this page covers what counts as a fetish, how it differs from a kink, when psychiatry would call it a disorder (rarely), and how common fetishes really are. For broader interests and how to talk about them, see our kink list.

What counts as a fetish

Wikipedia defines sexual fetishism as a sexual fixation on anything not considered sexual by its nature. The object of desire is the fetish and the person is a fetishist. When the focus is a non-genital body part, feet, hands or hair, the technical term is partialism. The French psychologist Alfred Binet first used fétichisme in an erotic sense in 1887, and the word itself comes, via French and Portuguese, from a term meaning a charm or spell. The broader word paraphilia was coined by Friedrich Salomon Krauss in 1903 and popularised in the 1980s by the sexologist John Money.

Fetish, kink or disorder?

Three words get muddled. A kink is any unconventional sexual interest, including acts, roles and power exchange. A fetish is narrower: it needs a thing, a material or a body part. Wikipedia notes that some people distinguish them by saying a kink enhances intimacy with a partner while a fetish can replace it, but there's no scientific consensus. A useful test of our own: if the arousal centres on an object or body part, call it a fetish; if it centres on an act or a role, call it a kink.

A disorder is a different matter. Under the American Psychiatric Association's DSM-5, fetishistic disorder requires intense, recurrent arousal from non-living objects or a highly specific focus on non-genital body parts for at least six months, and it must cause significant distress or impairment. Clothing used for cross-dressing and devices made for genital stimulation don't count. The APA puts it plainly: most people with atypical sexual interests do not have a mental disorder. The World Health Organization went further in ICD-11, in effect since 2022, which no longer lists fetishism among the paraphilic disorders at all; its working group argued that unusual arousal without distress, dysfunction or harm isn't a mental disorder.

How common fetishes are

The most-cited study, by Scorolli and colleagues in 2007, analysed 381 online fetish groups with at least 5,000 members. Body parts were the focus of 33% of the groups and body-related objects such as shoes of 30%. Feet were the clear leader: 47% of the body-part groups, while footwear was 64% of the object groups. It's a snapshot of internet activity, not a population survey, but it's the best map available.

As fantasies, fetishes are mainstream. A 2015 survey by Joyal and colleagues found 27.8% of men and 26.3% of women had fantasised about sex involving a fetish or non-sexual object. As a clinical problem they're rare: fewer than 1% of general psychiatric patients present with fetishism as their main issue. In a 1983 review of 48 clinical cases by Chalkley and Powell, the commonest fetishes were clothing at 58.3%, rubber at 22.9%, footwear and body parts at 14.6% each, and leather at 10.4%.

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Every desire, filed and cross-referenced. Most of the drawers are smaller than the internet suggests.

Fetishes A to F

Evidence notes: "studied" means peer-reviewed or clinical research exists; "reference" means the term appears in sexology reference books or lists but hasn't been researched; "internet" means a popular label with no academic source we could find.

Fetishes G to M

Fetishes N to Z

What this list leaves out

Lists of paraphilias online include some that have no place here, and we've left them out deliberately: anything involving minors, animals, the dead, people who haven't consented, bodily waste, blood or breath restriction, or serious harm. Those aren't kinks to explore; several are crimes. Everything above is about adults, consent and things that harm no one.

If something on this list is yours, you're in large company, and you don't need a Greek name for it to be valid. Our femdom glossary covers the vocabulary of domination itself, our guide to kink shaming covers what to do with judgement, and the strip at the top shows dominant women live now, many of whom list feet, latex, leather or nylon among their favourites.

Quick answers

What is the most common fetish?

Feet. A 2007 study of 381 online fetish groups with at least 5,000 members found feet and foot-related objects were the most common focus, and footwear made up 64% of the body-related object groups. That measures online activity, not the whole population.

What is a fetish?

Sexual arousal focused on something not usually considered sexual, such as an object, a material or a non-genital body part. Wikipedia defines sexual fetishism as a sexual fixation on anything not considered sexual by its nature.

What's the difference between a fetish and a kink?

There's no scientific consensus. Broadly, a fetish centres on a thing, a material or a body part, while a kink is any unconventional sexual interest, including acts and power dynamics. Some people say a kink enhances intimacy and a fetish can replace it.

Is having a fetish a mental disorder?

No. Under DSM-5, fetishistic disorder needs at least six months of intense arousal plus significant distress or impairment. The American Psychiatric Association says most people with atypical sexual interests don't have a mental disorder, and the WHO's ICD-11 no longer lists fetishism at all.

What is partialism?

A fetish focused on a specific non-genital body part, such as feet, hands or hair. It was a separate diagnosis in DSM-IV and was folded into fetishistic disorder in DSM-5 in 2013.

What are fetishes called in medical terms?

Many have Greek or Latin names ending in -philia or -lagnia: podophilia for feet, trichophilia for hair, sthenolagnia for muscles, knismolagnia for tickling. Most of these appear only in reference books, and many popular ones have no formal name at all.

How common are fetishes?

Quite common as fantasies. A 2015 Canadian survey found 27.8% of men and 26.3% of women had fantasised about sex involving a fetish or non-sexual object. Fetishism as a clinical problem is rare: under 1% of general psychiatric patients.

What is a tickling fetish called?

Knismolagnia, also knismophilia. A 2024 survey in Frontiers in Psychology of people with the interest found about a quarter reported reaching orgasm from tickling alone, and the authors called it a distinct preference.

What is the fetish for statues called?

Agalmatophilia: attraction to statues, dolls or mannequins. It's one of the few with a clinical literature, going back to a 1975 paper that called it the statue syndrome, and it echoes the Greek myth of Pygmalion.